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MLE's "Guydance"

There is so much information available pertaining to relationships; especially on the internet. This blog is for all of my girlfriends who are consistently asking me questions about the nature of men (which I don’t mind answering one iota).

Questions like: Why did he ditch me for that chick? I always had dinner ready and the laundry done, and he’s never acknowledged how hard I’ve worked! I gave him all of my love and energy, how could he not appreciate that? He’s not answering my phone calls, should I try texting him??? How do you attract so many men, what is it about you???

So, to help us avoid all of our temporary relationship crisis, I am posting several of my favorite go-to guides that I refer to when I’m posed with certain questions about relationships and “guydance.”

Believe it or not, one of the sites that I have recently been following is Men’s Health magazine (http://www.menshealth.com/cda/homepage.do?site=MensHealth). I know, it might seem a bit out of the ordinary for a woman to follow a men’s site, but there is so much information that we can use as leverage! Navigating through this website for a couple minutes gives us women the perfect opportunity to finally begin to understand a guys pshyche: Beautiful women in lengerie, the hundreds if not thousands of articles on how-to have mind-blowing sex (positions included), diet tips (what woman doesn’t love that?), and my personal favorite, the guys wisdom section (men offerring men advice on what women love?). The point is, this website directly speaks to women about what men like. Who knew that Men’s Health would be healthy for women too? Take the information and make it useful next time you’re with your guy.

Another go-to guide that I religiously read is a book written in 1931 by Dale Carnegie, “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” This book is the Holy Grail on relationships, and hands-down, a much better than the book, “The Secret,” by Rhonda Byrnes (although that’s a great book to keep in the bathroom). For the individuals who have read, “How to Win Friends and Influence People,” I applaud you; for those who have not read this book, life waits for no one…this book comes highly recommended.

To get this book: “How to Win Friends and Influence People,” is available on Amazon.com for $7.99

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